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I lied to everybody for years!

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Estelle CHARLERY, author, blogger and life coach
Estelle C.

I lied to everyone...


I lied to my parents, making them believe that I was a dedicated student pursuing the studies they had chosen for me.


I lied to my teachers, pretending I was interested in their lessons.


I lied to my high school friends, acting happy and proud when I earned my Bac C (scientific baccalaureate) at 17 and a half.


I even faked excitement when I received my DEUG A (Sciences and Structure of Matter) — thanks, UPEC (University of Créteil, Paris area, France).


I lied to my first employers, convincing them I had a clear vision of where I wanted to be in five years.


I lied to the ones after that, making them believe I had outgrown my previous role and needed a change.


I lied to my husband and children every time I came home and said I had a great day at work.


I lied to all my lovers after my divorce, telling them I had a thriving career and that everything was just fine.


But most of all, I lied to myself!


But most of all, I lied to myself, because the only career I ever truly wanted wasn’t in administrative management or accounting, even though I excel at both.


It wasn’t in team management either, despite my natural talent for leadership.


It wasn’t even — hold on! — in personal development coaching, though I now find joy in helping others become more confident and empowered.


The only career I ever wanted to was in writing.

Black female writer
Write, write, write...

So, I almost became a scientist, but I became an executive.


I almost became a Manager, but I became an entrepreneur.


When all I ever wanted was to be an artist.


I’ve been lying to myself for half a century. Fifty years of pretending.


That’s a long time. It’s exhausting. And it hurts.


So, enough. I’m done.


My new life begins now.


July 31, 2023, marked the first day of the #JeRamenMaFraise challenge, organized by Nina Ramen. I joined wholeheartedly, and since then, I’ve restructured my life to focus on what truly matters: my journey as an artist and author.


Because the best way to inspire others to chase their dreams is to chase my own.



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